Author Re-Edited : Specialist Franklin Joseph
Safety Specialist Guruji Franklin Joseph, a Social Entrepreneur founded and serves as Chief Instructor of the Franklin Joseph Krav Maga Self Defense Academy in Bengaluru and Dharwad. ‘Dr. Safety’ a.k.a. Guruji Franklin Joseph is also the CEO of the Indian Institute of Strategic Threat-Intelligence Analysis and Combat Tactical Science.
There is lot of myths out there…
A number of delusions about real criminal behaviour and self-defense exist, which can lead to confusion. It’s critical to distinguish reality from fantasy when making judgements for one’s own safety. Some popular myths are as follows:
Myth ~ “It will never happen to me” mentality:
Reality ~ A lot of people assume that they are not vulnerable to being victims of crime. Especially since they are of good nature/background i.e., they do not go out drinking in bars or go looking for criminal elements etc. This kind of thinking might result in neglect and lack of readiness. People might take proactive measures for their safety when they are aware that they may be a target.
Myth ~ Martial Arts tricks can help me fight Criminals:
Reality ~ Some people may justify dangerous behaviour by assuming martial arts tricks are capable of handling these situation. The rigidity of martial arts is not capable of handling a crime situation that is dynamic. No tricks or stunts will help in a violent confrontation. This arrogance can make bad decisions and make one more susceptible to crime.
Myth ~ Carrying Weapon will make me safe:
Reality ~ Being able to defend oneself with weapon is useful, but it does not ensure safety. It’s essential to have the right training and know when and how to use a weapon. Weapons may make things more dangerous in certain situations and will escalate the threat rather than diffusing it. In several case studies, the victim’s weapon was used by the attacker to kill the victim.
Myth ~ Only physically strong people can defend themselves:
Reality ~ Physical strength is not the only factor in self-defense. It is possible to claim that strength is a very minor factor in self defense, as the majority of variables include de-escalation techniques, evacuation strategies, and situational awareness plus many others. Anyone can benefit from learning these abilities.
Myth ~ Crime only happens in certain areas:
Reality ~ Crime is possible anywhere. It’s possible to become comfortable if you think that some places are always safe. Regardless of where you are, it is imperative that you stay fully aware of your surroundings.
Myth ~ Strangers are the primary threat:
Reality ~ While there is reason to be cautious regarding risks posed by strangers, statistics indicate that a substantial number of crimes are committed by persons the victim knows. It’s important to use caution in all of your contacts, not just those with strangers.
Myth ~ If someone breaks into your home, you have the right to use deadly force:
Reality ~ Various jurisdictions have different laws pertaining to self-defense, and using lethal force is usually only acceptable in situations where someone’s life is in danger. It is essential to comprehend local laws and regulations in order to prevent legal complications. Legally proving the concept of self defense takes time, and you may have to spend some time in jail.
Myth ~ Martial arts training makes you invincible:
Reality ~ Although practicing self-defense techniques can help you defend yourself, it won’t make you indestructible. Being overconfident can be harmful. The ability to defend oneself effectively requires a blend of physical expertise, mental preparedness, and attention to many other elements.
Myth ~ Calling the police hotline is enough every time:
Reality ~ While making a help line call is important, it might not be enough. Having a personal safety plan is crucial, which should include understanding how to protect yourself or flee if needed.
Myth ~ Victims are always to blame for not preventing the crime:
Reality ~ Being a victim of a crime is not someone’s fault. It is destructive to blame victims for not stopping an incident. The acts of criminals are their own responsibility.
Myth ~ Only women need self-defense training:
Reality ~ Self-defense education is beneficial for both men and women. Since everyone might be a target for danger, knowing how to defend oneself is an important life skill.
Myth ~ Avoiding eye contact prevents conflict:
Reality ~ Even though it can occasionally be interpreted as a sign of submission, it’s important to stay aware of your surroundings. Avoiding eye contact too much can make you look more vulnerable, and it might not always work to diffuse a quarrel.
Conclusion
Making educated decisions about one’s personal safety can be facilitated by having a solid understanding of the facts surrounding crime and self-defense. When thinking about using self-defense techniques, it’s critical to be knowledgeable, pay attention to your surroundings, and get the right training.